Putting on the dress and the ring and legally binding yourself to a person of the opposite sex can wreak havoc not only on your gay credentials but on your own self-perception. Am I turning my back on the struggle of a minority? And then there's the concept that a lifetime with only one set of genitals for company is inconceivable for bisexual people. I've had some very concerned dialogues go something like this:"But how can you be happy with just one gender? I don't feel any mourning for my access to breasts, any more than I mourn for my access to other dudes. If I felt any urge to still be out squeezing them, I would not have walked down that aisle.
Being bi and married doesn't mean perpetually thinking wistfully that the grass is greener elsewhere; it means really, really loving your patch of garden, and working on it ardently.
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I'm a girl and bisexual, and I was wondering what straight guys really feel about dating bi girls?
In the same way that straight relationships involve, I don't know, Chinese food, or fighting over the remote. Obviously there are many things wrong with that situation. Sexuality is fluid, and it can change over time, but assuming this in another person is a good way to get something thrown at your head.
But the underlying assumption, that threesomes are regularly on the sexual menu, isn't too uncommon. And then there are the people who decide I was never actually REALLY queer at all, that I was either a L. G — Lesbian Until Graduation — dating women because it was fashionable and edgy or because I was just confused.
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