I want to respond to you about vacations specifically, but I also want to write to you about the bigger question of dating in a way that pleases God. ‘Why shouldn’t couples take vacations alone together?!’ But our answer here is nuanced, as the Christian understanding of sex and romance is very different from that of popular culture. The first one I’ll just mention and then spend most of the time on the second.
It could be an absolute disaster, but then again it could be the most exciting thing you have ever done in your life. Sometimes it feels like your time of the month can come at the worst times, doesn't it?
You look at the calendar and try to remember the day of your last one. There is so much promise and the future looks so bright at this moment that you know that absolutely nothing could go wrong or dampen your mood.
Are we making a mistake by planning to go on this vacation?
In other words, are you and your man ready for something so new and different together?
Make sure it is something special, but also something that you feel comfortable in that can be easily packed in your bag.