But Bradshaw warns that over thinking every move, action, word, and facial expression can be detrimental to any relationship, especially a new one.
“The clients I work with who are seeking a relationship have one thing in common: they overthink things when it comes to relationships. They have been hurt by previous partners, and in hindsight see the red flags they excused away; they have become hyper vigilant to anything that seems like it could be a red flag.
You have to put yourself out there, but not try too hard.
You should try online dating, but don’t rely on it completely.
They don’t want to go through that experience again,” she explains.