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(When one friend narrowed her Ok Cupid search to men taller than six feet and then complained about a boring date with some guy built like an NBA player, I laughed in her face.) Here's how I figure it: If a man is comfortable with the fact that I'm taller, he's also likely to be comfortable with the fact that I'm competitive and outgoing and career-oriented. To think of a world with all these new, gorgeous options.If you won't do it for yourself, try it for my sake.But keep in mind that, because you're asking her to question gut-level beliefs about what she finds attractive, you need to be willing to broaden your own definition of what you find attractive—and convey to her that it does not contain the phrase "smaller than me." Of course, women also have to be willing to check their own biases about short men.

I'll get there in a minute.) Women have internalized the message that it's better for us to be smaller.

This is essential to know—it's not just about shortness, but also skinniness.

What are your stories of dating taller women, both as a confidence boost and as warnings of what not to do?

ETA: Thought I would let you all know that I showed my best mates (5'8 and 5'11, also tall girls) this thread, thanks to all the responses, and the consensus was that they are both going to be looking very differently at guys when we go out to the gig we're off to tonight.

For chrissakes, I'm talking about of us getting laid here!

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