Meeting people from online dating

’ For Britain’s 16 million singles, looking for love online is the norm.

Studies have suggested that anything between 35 and 50 per cent of all couples in the UK, now meet via the web.

But in all likelihood, you’re probably going to have a drink with someone who just doesn’t do it for you. I recall a friend excitedly going off for a first date with a chap - ‘I just have a good feeling about this one, he’s an academic you know’ - only to discover he was a librarian who spent the entire meal talking about dust jackets.

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They conducted a survey of 433 online daters and found that the longer they waited to meet a match in person, the more likely they were to feel let down.

That trend that was significantly more obvious after the 17 to 23 day ‘tipping point’. That its lead researcher, Artemio Ramirez Jr., an Associate Professor, met his wife online in 2005.

You can ‘get to know’ someone from behind the safety of a screen.

But a recent study by the University of South Florida suggests that – while a short period of messaging is fine – we actually shouldn’t wait too long to arrange a meeting.

Because it just isn’t a real relationship until you’re sat opposite each other, drinking lattes.

Last modified 01-Dec-2019 23:41