Know that feeling you get when a test is being passed out in class? Take all sort of tests, from personality tests that gauge whether you crazy or not, to tests that probe the depths of your knowledge on spelunking. And yet most of us get online and wonder why it always feels so stale.
I seem to run into this a lot and haven’t seen this addressed.
In my first email, I usually ask a few questions and figure the female will answer them, which they usually do, but then they don’t ask anything of me but still seem interested.
Wouldn’t it stand to reason that if you took the time to write something interesting and creative back to these guys, you might discover that they actually have a personality?
I mean, from the majority of your emails, you sound really boring, too.
If your email dialogue is flagging, it’s not simply because she’s not interested in you – it’s because you haven’t captured her imagination.